Friday, May 4, 2012
4 Type of SideChick by MzSweetJuice
- Trill-Real SideChick this is the sidechick who knows the rules. She more then likely knows all your business. She might have already meet your main boo & is know only as a co-worker or friend of a friend. She don't blow up your spot if your main boo called your phone (as long as the dude is keeping his sidechick satisfied) She also might have a main dude herself & don't need the extra drama. But she just satisfied in dealing with a man who is already taken but she don't want him as her main dude. Also this is the chick u might go with to the bar but not all boo'd up. Taken in meals not to much going out in public.
- The Wanna-be MainChick SideChick- this is that chick who more then likely just got over a bad breakup or just doesn't have a man & is not willing to have any other man other then the man who is more then likely involved or married. She spoiled this man as though she is main chick. She catches feels & if the is any sign of another sidechick in the making she fusses with the guy as if she his main chick. These chick tend to mess it up for herself cause the guy does not want to deal with 2 fussing ass women. So this chick will get her heart broken again.
- The Young SideChick This is the chick who knows nothing about the game. She more then likely got manipulated by an other dude at the club, at her job or at the mall . & she basically said 'fuck these young dude, I got a grow ass man'. But what she fail to realize this man is gonna train u ass his little puppet. This r also the chick who more then likely call up or visit the wife & tell her about everything ya'll did, even down to the sex she had up in your bed.
- The Golddigger SideChick- this is the chick who find her prey at expensive department stores, NBA draft party, & fancy restaurant. This chick don't mind being a sidechick cause they r more then likely getting there bills paid, hair did,dining in fine restaurant & fucking in nice ass hotels. But while dating these dude they looking for then next come up. Supperhead is the prime examples of this type of chick.
Monday, April 16, 2012
Sidechick gone wrong!! by MzSweetJuice
Here is a story about when being a sidechick goes completely wrong: 26 year old Tracy started messing around with a department supervisor at her job. Yes she knew he was married but didn't mind having him on his & her day off which was "Tuesday". She would do everything a sidechick is suppose to do but she mess up when one day she realize her dude called out of work on the same day as another co-worker did.. She flipped on him crying asking if he was fuckin the other chick cause the called out on the same day.
Umm.. Sidechick rule just has been broken. U don't catch feeling if him & a co-worker calls out... This let's me know u have develops feeling that should not be. Now I understand we r females & yes we do get emotionally involved. But if u feel threaten at work/school if another chick is talking to your boo then maybe u r not secure enough to play a sidechick. All I'm saying is once u start to nag, crying & overly emotionally or ask him for more time quality time then your time as his Tuesday Sidechick is about to end real soon.
Ladies remember u can not play a sidechick & try to have mainchick outburst cause u will get cut off the team..
Umm.. Sidechick rule just has been broken. U don't catch feeling if him & a co-worker calls out... This let's me know u have develops feeling that should not be. Now I understand we r females & yes we do get emotionally involved. But if u feel threaten at work/school if another chick is talking to your boo then maybe u r not secure enough to play a sidechick. All I'm saying is once u start to nag, crying & overly emotionally or ask him for more time quality time then your time as his Tuesday Sidechick is about to end real soon.
Ladies remember u can not play a sidechick & try to have mainchick outburst cause u will get cut off the team..
Sunday, April 15, 2012
MZFANTAZ
10 Commandments For Side Chicks And Dudes According To Power 98FM
I. Thou shalt not put any other partners before me.
Yes, I understand that it’s hypocritical for someone in a relationship to ask their side person to remain faithful, but you knew what you were walking into when you signed up for this. They just need you to stand by them while I “work things out” with their main squeeze. Just a few more years and they’ll be all yours… yeah, right.
Yes, I understand that it’s hypocritical for someone in a relationship to ask their side person to remain faithful, but you knew what you were walking into when you signed up for this. They just need you to stand by them while I “work things out” with their main squeeze. Just a few more years and they’ll be all yours… yeah, right.
II.Thou shalt not keep any images or video footage of us together—ever.
The key to keeping this thing going is no evidence, so there will be no pictures taken or sex tapes recorded. Denying everything only works when there’s no proof. Plus, in the event that things go south your jump-off should not have anything that he or she can black mail you with later.
The key to keeping this thing going is no evidence, so there will be no pictures taken or sex tapes recorded. Denying everything only works when there’s no proof. Plus, in the event that things go south your jump-off should not have anything that he or she can black mail you with later.
III. Thou shalt not use the L-word in vain.
This rule is so underrated, but if you follow it things will be less complicated. Do not under any circumstances tell your jump-off you love them unless you really mean it. If said under false pretenses you’re just leaving yourself open for a world of hurt when the truth comes out.
This rule is so underrated, but if you follow it things will be less complicated. Do not under any circumstances tell your jump-off you love them unless you really mean it. If said under false pretenses you’re just leaving yourself open for a world of hurt when the truth comes out.
IV. Remember the special days and stay in your place.
When someone’s in a real relationship—you know, one with a real title like BF/GF or husband/wife—there are certain commitments that need to be maintained, like anniversaries, holidays and Valentine’s Day. Listen closely, those days are not for you so don’t call, don’t text, don’t email and definitely don’t start no drama, just stay in your lane and wait until the coast is clear.
When someone’s in a real relationship—you know, one with a real title like BF/GF or husband/wife—there are certain commitments that need to be maintained, like anniversaries, holidays and Valentine’s Day. Listen closely, those days are not for you so don’t call, don’t text, don’t email and definitely don’t start no drama, just stay in your lane and wait until the coast is clear.
V. Thou shalt not meet my father and mother.
Besides, meeting mom and dad is way too personal, especially if they know about your main squeeze. You don’t need your parents asking too many questions or accidentally slipping up and leaking information. When it comes to friends, you’re bestie can be your confidante but as a rule the less people that know about your side chick/dude the better.
Besides, meeting mom and dad is way too personal, especially if they know about your main squeeze. You don’t need your parents asking too many questions or accidentally slipping up and leaking information. When it comes to friends, you’re bestie can be your confidante but as a rule the less people that know about your side chick/dude the better.
VI. Thou shalt not kill.
No, seriously, that’s not cool. Don’t ever go all psycho and try to pull out knives and guns because you can’t have the person all to yourself. Physical violence (against yourself or others) only makes things worse, so control your anger issues and understand that we all can’t have what we want when we want it.
No, seriously, that’s not cool. Don’t ever go all psycho and try to pull out knives and guns because you can’t have the person all to yourself. Physical violence (against yourself or others) only makes things worse, so control your anger issues and understand that we all can’t have what we want when we want it.
VI. Thou shalt not stalk.
Not only is it annoying, it’s not at all attractive. Nothing turns off someone’s sexiness factor quicker than being desperate or a bug-a-boo. With that said don’t ever pop up unannounced and definitely don’t try to be social media friends or follow each other on Twitter. The only communication side chicks/dudes get is direct contact, everything else leaves a paper trail and/or invades the other person’s personal space.
Not only is it annoying, it’s not at all attractive. Nothing turns off someone’s sexiness factor quicker than being desperate or a bug-a-boo. With that said don’t ever pop up unannounced and definitely don’t try to be social media friends or follow each other on Twitter. The only communication side chicks/dudes get is direct contact, everything else leaves a paper trail and/or invades the other person’s personal space.
VIII. Thou shalt not steal.
In the event that someone is sloppy enough to bring their jump-off into their home, it’s with the understanding that he/she will not take any souvenirs with them. The same goes for a hotel/motel excursion also, in that going through someone’s purse/wallet while they’re in the shower is a major violation. This works in the reverse as well in that a jump-off should not leave behind any clues of their presence (i.e. panties/boxers, hair, condoms/pads in trash, etc.).
In the event that someone is sloppy enough to bring their jump-off into their home, it’s with the understanding that he/she will not take any souvenirs with them. The same goes for a hotel/motel excursion also, in that going through someone’s purse/wallet while they’re in the shower is a major violation. This works in the reverse as well in that a jump-off should not leave behind any clues of their presence (i.e. panties/boxers, hair, condoms/pads in trash, etc.).
IX. Thou shalt not lie on me or to me.
Living a double life is hard enough but to have the one person you’ve been real with from the beginning turn their back on you hurts. While the main squeeze was in the dark about the other relationship, the side chick/dude knew what was up from jump. Sure, it’s a difficult situation to be in once emotions get involved (and they always do eventually) but making stuff up is uncalled for, especially if it involves the police or child protective services.
Living a double life is hard enough but to have the one person you’ve been real with from the beginning turn their back on you hurts. While the main squeeze was in the dark about the other relationship, the side chick/dude knew what was up from jump. Sure, it’s a difficult situation to be in once emotions get involved (and they always do eventually) but making stuff up is uncalled for, especially if it involves the police or child protective services.
X. Thou shalt not covet the main squeeze or what he/she has.
Don’t worry about what the main squeeze is doing or getting, because that has nothing to do with you. Just enjoy what little time you can get with your boo while he/she isn’t with the person they’re actually committed to. Of course their gift was bigger and better and they get all the holidays, because they the priority while you’re just a side chick/dude—deal with it.
Don’t worry about what the main squeeze is doing or getting, because that has nothing to do with you. Just enjoy what little time you can get with your boo while he/she isn’t with the person they’re actually committed to. Of course their gift was bigger and better and they get all the holidays, because they the priority while you’re just a side chick/dude—deal with it.
Saturday, April 14, 2012
The Basic Rules by MzSweetJuice
Well this is pretty much an introduction to The SideChick Chronicle. This is basically a blog were a group of women who have been or are currently in SideChick situation. Now I had pulled this basic rules from another source but these are pretty much your basic rules:
According confidential sources, there are even rules to being a side chick. The rules are as follows:
-http://simplysimmone.hubpages.com/hub/The-Side-Chick
According confidential sources, there are even rules to being a side chick. The rules are as follows:
- She must know her position/part and never get out of line.
- She must be someone he can have fun with, but not expect any commitment.
- She must give him what he’s not getting at home with his main woman or wife.
- She can be there for emotional support, if things go wrong in his main relationship.
- She must have nothing to lose.
- She must be willing to be a toy. Basically he takes her out the box when he needs her.
- She must be there when he needs/wants her to be.
-http://simplysimmone.hubpages.com/hub/The-Side-Chick
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